Peran intensitas komunikasi dan regulasi emosi terhadap konflik interpersonal pada dewasa awal yang menjalani hubungan berpacaran jarak jauh
Abstract
Courtship is a relationship that involves a greater and deeper intimacy and romantic feelings between two individuals who know each other. During the process, courtship cannot always be done closely due to education and careers in different areas that causes long distance relationship. The distance becomes an obstacle which triggers several conflicts. The situation of conflict always involves the communication process and emotional aspects. The influent communication tends to cause misunderstanding that lead to conflict. Uncontrolled emotion causes a dangerous conflict. This study applied quantitative method that discussed the role of communication intensity and emotion regulation toward interpersonal conflict at early adulthood undergoing long distance relationships. The subjects of study involved 307 adults who had long distance relationships. In this study, the scale of interpersonal conflict, communication intensity, and emotional regulation were applied as measuring instruments. Multiple regression technique was use to do data analysis. The results of multiple regression tests showed that a regression coefficient was 0,596; a coefficient value of determination was 0,355; and a significance value was 0,000 (p<0,05) with a standardized beta coefficient on the variable of communication intensity about -0,373 and emotion regulation about -0,348. These results indicate that communication intensity and emotion regulation take a role to decrease interpersonal conflict at early adulthood who have long distance relationships.
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Maguire, K.C., & Kinney, T. A. (2010). When distance is problematic: Communication, coping, and relational satisfaction in female college students’ long-distance relationships. Journal of Applied Communication Research, 24-76.
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Pistole, M., Roberts, A., & Chapman, M. L. (2010). Attachment, relationship maintenance, and stress in long distance and geographically close romantic relationships. Journal of Social and Personal Relationship, 27, 535-553.
Pratiwi, N. N. A. Y., & Lestari, M. D. (2017). Perbedaan kualitas komunikasi antara individu dewasa awal yang berpacaran jarak jauh dan jarak dekat di Denpasar. Jurnal Psikologi Udayana, 4(1).
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Santoso, S. (2016). Panduan lengkap spss versi 23. Jakarta: PT Elex Media Komputindo.
Santrock, J. W. (2003). Adolescence: perkembangan remaja. Jakarta: Erlangga.
Schoeder-Abe, M., & Schutz, A. (2011). Walking in each other’s shoes: Perspective taking mediates effects of emotion intellegence on relationship quality. Journal of Personality, 25.
Stafford, K. A. (2005). On the nature and function of emotion: A component process approach. Dalam R. Scherer & P. E. Ekman (Eds). Approaches to Emotion. Hal 293-317. Hillsdale, NJ: Erlbaum.
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Wilmot, W. W., & Hocker, J. L. (2007). Interpersonal conflict 7th edition. New York: McGraw-Hill.
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ARYANINGSIH, Putu Indira Ayu; SUSILAWATI, Luh Kadek Pande Ary.
Peran intensitas komunikasi dan regulasi emosi terhadap konflik interpersonal pada dewasa awal yang menjalani hubungan berpacaran jarak jauh.
Jurnal Psikologi Udayana, [S.l.], v. 7, n. 1, p. 20-30, apr. 2020.
ISSN 2654-4024.
Available at: <https://ojs.unud.ac.id/index.php/psikologi/article/view/57759>. Date accessed: 02 may 2024.
doi: https://doi.org/10.24843/JPU.2020.v07.i01.p03.
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