Gambaran self-disclosure pada perempuan pengguna aplikasi online dating Tinder di tengah pandemi COVID-19
Abstract
Technological developments have made it possible for women to find mates online. One application that makes it possible to find matches online is Tinder. The emergence of the COVID-19 pandemic has led to an increase in Tinder users and increased conversation duration. This increase was motivated by the boredom that was felt during the implementation of the PSBB. Proper self-disclosure is necessary so that communication runs smoothly and builds good relationships. This study aims to get an overview of self-disclosure among women users of online dating application Tinder during the COVID-19 pandemic by using a qualitative research method with a case study approach. In this study, respondents were five women who were active users of the Tinder online dating application during the COVID-19 pandemic. Data collection using interviews. The results showed that self-disclosure in women could be seen through several things: the limitations of communicating, the factors that influence the swiping process, and the Tinder bio's information.
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Strauss, A., & Corbin, J. (2017). Dasar-Dasar Penelitian Kualitatif: Tata Langkah dan Teknik-Teknik Teoritisasi Data. Pustaka Pelajar.
Sumter, S. R., Vandenbosch, L., & Ligtenberg, L. (2016). Love me Tinder: Untangling emerging adults’ motivations for using the dating application Tinder. Telematics and Informatics, 34(1), 67–78. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.tele.2016.04.009
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Wabah corona bikin aplikasi kencan online laris manis. (2020). https://www.cnnindonesia.com/teknologi/20200402144747-185-489624/wabah-corona-bikin-aplikasi-kencan-online-laris-manis
Waluyo, L. S., & Revianti, I. (2019). Pertukaran Sosial dalam Online Dating (Studi Pada Pengguna Tinder di Indonesia). Informatik, 15(1), 21–38.
Ward, J. (2016). Swiping, matching, chatting: Self-Presentation and self-disclosure on mobile dating apps. Human IT, 13(2), 81–95.
Ward, J. (2017). What are you doing on Tinder? Impression management on a matchmaking mobile app. Information Communication and Society, 20(11), 1644–1659. https://doi.org/10.1080/1369118X.2016.1252412
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Yan, L., Gan, Y., Ding, X., Wu, J., & Duan, H. (2020). The relationship between perceived stress and emotional distress during the COVID-19 outbreak : Effects of boredom proneness and coping style. Journal of Anxiety Disorders, 77(August 2020), 102328. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.janxdis.2020.102328
Yin, R. K. (2002). Case study research: Design and methods (2rd
ed). Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage.
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2021-10-31
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SALSABILA, Firnandha; WIDIASAVITRI, Putu Nugrahaeni.
Gambaran self-disclosure pada perempuan pengguna aplikasi online dating Tinder di tengah pandemi COVID-19.
Jurnal Psikologi Udayana, [S.l.], v. 8, n. 2, p. 48-57, oct. 2021.
ISSN 2654-4024.
Available at: <https://ojs.unud.ac.id/index.php/psikologi/article/view/69169>. Date accessed: 16 nov. 2024.
doi: https://doi.org/10.24843/JPU.2021.v08.i02.p07.
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