Pengaruh dimensi attachment avoidance dan anxiety terhadap kualitas hubungan berpacaran dewasa muda
Abstract
Dating relationship is a crucial part of the human life particularly for the young adults that it can affect the mental health of a person. Hence, the quality of dating relationship should be thoroughly considered because bad dating relationship could contribute negatively to a person’s life, to the person’s relationship with other people in the future and further to the next phase of dating relationship (marriage). Prior researches show that attachment is the preeminent indicators of the quality of relationship. Attachment is human desire to establish relationship based on shared affection with other individuals. Attachment also determines the direction and the basic understanding of individual toward that relationship. The objective of this research is to discern the dimension effect of attachment toward the quality of dating relationship for the young adults. Total participant of this research is 145 people. This research uses quantitative research method with measuring instrument of ‘The Experiences Close Relationship-Revised dan The Perceived Relationship Quality Component.’ The result of this research shows that there is dimension effect of attachment toward the quality of dating relationship by 44,8%. However, attachment avoidance give bigger impact towards relationship quality compare with attachment anxiety.
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Fraley, R. C., Waller, N. G., & Brennan, K. A. (2000). An item response theory analysis of selfreport measures of adult attachment. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 78, 350–365.
Gere, J., & Schimmack, U. (2013). When romantic partners’ goals conflict: Effects on relationship quality and subjective well-being. J Happiness Stud (14), 37-49.
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Hazan, C., & Shaver, P. R. (1987). Romantic love conceptualized as an attachment process. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 52, 511-524. .
Hernandez, J. M. C., & Santos, C. C. (2010). Development-based trust: Proposing and validating a new trust measurement model for buyer-seller relationships. Brazilian Administration Review, 7(2), 172-197.
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Lund, M. (1985). The development of investment and commitment scales for predicting continuity personal relationships. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 2, 3–23.
Luo, S. (2009). Partner selection and relationship satisfaction in early dating couples: The role of couple similarity. Personality and individual differences, 47(2), 133-138.
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Rhoades, G. K., Kamp Dush, C. M., Atkins, D. C., Stanley, S. M., & Markman, H. J. (2011). Breaking up is hard to do: The impact of unmarried relationship dissolution on mental health and life satisfaction. J Fam Psychol, 25(3), 366-374. 110.
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Schindler, I., Fagundes, C. P., & Murdock, K. W. (2010). Predictors of romantic relationship formation: Attachment style, prior relationships, and dating goals. Personal Relationships, 17(1), 97-105. doi:10.1111/j.1475-6811.2010.01255.x
Shaver, P. R., & Hazan, C. (1988). A biased overview of the study of love. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 5(4), 473-501. doi:10.1177/0265407588054005.
Sugiyono. (2017). Metode penelitian kuantitatif, kualitatif, dan kombinasi (mixed methods). Bandung: Alfabeta
Viejo, C., Monks, C. P., Sanchez, V., & Ortega-Ruiz, R. (2016). Physical dating violence in Spain and the United Kingdom and the importance of relationship quality. Journal of interpersonal violence, 31(8), 1453-1475.
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2021-04-29
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ANGELA, Irene; ARIELA, Jessica.
Pengaruh dimensi attachment avoidance dan anxiety terhadap kualitas hubungan berpacaran dewasa muda.
Jurnal Psikologi Udayana, [S.l.], v. 8, n. 1, p. 36-48, apr. 2021.
ISSN 2654-4024.
Available at: <https://ojs.unud.ac.id/index.php/psikologi/article/view/63100>. Date accessed: 18 apr. 2024.
doi: https://doi.org/10.24843/JPU.2021.v08.i01.p04.
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