Apakah Emotional Intelligence dipengaruhi gender?: Analisis perbedaan kecerdasan emosi kaitannya dengan manajemen konflik suami-isteri dalam masa kritis perkawinan
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Kecerdasan emosi/emotional intelligence menjadi menarik dibahas karena selalu bersangktan dengan aspek kehidupan seperti membina hubungan sampai dengan penyelesaian konflik. Studi gender konvensional menyebutkan terdapat perbedaan antara laki-laki dan perempuan terutama dalam emosi keduanya. Hal ini dikaitkan dengan perbedaan jenis kelamin secara fisiologis dan peran gender secara sosial. Studi ini bertujuan untuk mengetahui perbedaan emotional intelligence laki-laki dan perempuan dalam konteks usia kritis perkawinan dimana konflik perkawinan seringkali terjadi. Sebanyak 91 pasangan suami istri (N=182) berpartisipasi dalam studi ini untuk mengetahui emotional intelligence yang dimiliki dan kaitan emotional intelligence terhadap manajemen konflik perkawinan. Temuan mengenai hasil korelasi dan komparasi serta pembahasan akan dibahas lebih lanjut dalam diskusi.
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Nurcahyanti, F. W. (2010). Manajemen konflik rumah tangga. Yogyakarta: Insania.
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Stenhouse, R., Snowden, A., Young, J., Carver, F., Carver, H., & Brown, N. (2016). Do emotional intelligence and previous caring experience influence student nurse performance? A comparative analysis. Nurse Education Today, 43, 1–9. doi:10.1016/j.nedt.2016.04.015
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Veshki, S.K., Jazayeri, R., Sharifi, E., Esfahani, S.B., Aminjafari, A., and Hosnije, A.H.S. (2012). The study of the relationship between emotional intelligence and marital conflict management styles in female teachers in esfahan. Interdisciplinary Journal Of Contemporary Research In Business, 4(7).
Walgito, B. (2004). Bimbingan & konseling perkawinan. Yogyakarta: ANDI.
Winata, S. Y. (2013). Strategi manajemen konflik interpersonal pasangan suami istri. Jurnal E-Komunikasi, 1(2): 118-127. Diunduh dari http://publication.petra.ac.id/index.php/ilmu-komunikasi/article/view/898
Wirawan. (2010). Konflik dan manajemen konflik: teori, aplikasi & penelitian. Jakarta: Salemba Humanika
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HIDAYAH, Bidayatul; ARIYANTO, Amarina Ashar; HARIYADI, Sugeng.
Apakah Emotional Intelligence dipengaruhi gender?: Analisis perbedaan kecerdasan emosi kaitannya dengan manajemen konflik suami-isteri dalam masa kritis perkawinan.
Jurnal Psikologi Udayana, [S.l.], v. 7, n. 2, p. 43-52, oct. 2020.
ISSN 2654-4024.
Available at: <https://ojs.unud.ac.id/index.php/psikologi/article/view/59003>. Date accessed: 19 nov. 2024.
doi: https://doi.org/10.24843/JPU.2020.v07.i02.p05.
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