Role of Self-Compassion and Irrational Beliefs in Relationship to Verbal Aggression in Adolescents Dating in Denpasar City
Abstract
Verbal aggression such as criticizing, cursing, cursing, and threatening a partner is considered emotional abuse. Unhealthy patterns of romantic relationships can lead to mental health problems in adolescents over time. This study aims to look at the role of self-compassion and irrational beliefs in relationship to verbal aggression in adolescents who are dating in Denpasar City. Subjects in the study were 110 people ranging in age from 15 to 21 years. Hypothesis testing is carried out using multiple regression analysis. Based on the results of multiple regression analysis, it is known that F counted at 15,113 with a significance level of 0,000 (p <0.05) which indicates that self-compassion and irrational beliefs in relationship together play a role in verbal aggression in adolescents who are dating in Denpasar City. The results of the analysis show that the R value is 0.469 with a coefficient of determination (R square) of 0.220 which means that self-compassion and irrational beliefs in relationships have a 22% contribution to verbal aggression.
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Eidelson, R. J., & Epstein, N. (1982). Cognition and relationship maladjustment: Development of a measure of dysfunctional relationship beliefs. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 50(5), 715–720. https://doi.org/10.1037//0022-006x.50.5.715
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Eriyanto. (2017). Teknik sampling: Analisis opini publik. Yogyakarta: LKiS Yogyakarta.
Field, A. (2009). Discovering statistics using spss. New York: Sage Publications Ltd.
Fives, C. J., Kong, G., Fuller, J. R., & DiGiuseppe, R. (2011). Anger, aggression, and irrational beliefs in adolescents. Cognitive Therapy and Research, 35(3), 199–208. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10608-009-9293-3
Fresnics, A., & Borders, A. (2017). Angry rumination mediates the unique associations between self-compassion and anger and aggression. Mindfulness, 8(3), 554–564. https://doi.org/10.1007/s12671-016-0629-2
Gómez-López, M., Viejo, C., & Ortega-Ruiz, R. (2019). Psychological well-being during adolescence: Stability and association with romantic relationships. Frontiers in Psychology, 10, 1–13. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2019.01772
Gündoğdu, R., Yavuzer, Y., & Karataş, Z. (2018). Irrational beliefs in romantic relationships as the predictor of aggression in emerging adulthood. Journal of Education and Training Studies, 6(3), 108–115. https://doi.org/10.11114/jets.v6i3.2884
İskender, M., Haydar Şar, A., Özçelik, B., Kocaman, G., & Yaldıran, A. (2019). Sleep quality and self-compassion as predictors of aggression in high school students. International Journal of Psychology and Educational Studies, 6(2), 77–86. https://doi.org/10.17220/ijpes.2019.02.008
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Kansky, J., & Allen, J. P. (2018). Long-term risks and possible benefits associated with late adolescent romantic relationship quality. Journal of Youth and Adolescence, 47(7), 1531–1544. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10964-018-0813-x
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Kaygusuz, C. (2013). Irrational beliefs and abuse in university students’ romantic relations. Eurasian Journal of Educational Research, 51, 141–156. Retrieved from https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/EJ1059821.pdf
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Moore, C. C., Hubbard, J. A., Bookhout, M. K., & Mlawer, F. (2019). Relations between reactive and proactive aggression and daily emotions in adolescents. Journal of Abnormal Child Psychology, 47(9), 1495–1507. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10802-019-00533-6
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Ootzel, J. G., & Ting-Toomey, S. (2006). The sage handbook of conflict communication: integrating theory, research, and practice. New York: Sage Publications Ltd.
Peters, J. R., Smart, L. M., Eisenlohr-Moul, T. A., Geiger, P. J., Smith, G. T., & Baer, R. A. (2015). Anger rumination as a mediator of the relationship between mindfulness and aggression: The utility of a multidimensional mindfulness model. Journal of Clinical Psychology, 71(9), 871–884. https://doi.org/10.1002/jclp.22189
Renzetti, C. M., & Edleson, J. L. (2008). Encyclopedia of interpersonal violence. California: SAGE Publications Inc.
Repi, A. A. (2019). Self-compassion versus self-esteem terhadap pembentukan self-concept remaja: mana yang lebih baik? Jurnal Psikologi TALENTA, 4(2), 167–181. https://doi.org/10.26858/talenta.v4i2.8242
Rubin, A. (2010). Statistics for evidence-based practice and evaluation. Boston: Cengage Learning.
Saiffudin, A. (2020). Penyusunan skala psikologi. Jakarta: Prenada Media.
Santoso, S. (2015). SPSS 20 pengolahan data statistik di era informasi. Jakarta: PT. Elex Media Komputindo.
Santrock, J. W. (2016). Adolescence. New York: McGraw-Hill Higher Education.
Super, A. (2015). A year of self-compassion: Finding care, connection and calm in our challenging times. Leicester: Troubador Publishing Ltd.
Temple, J. R., Choi, H. J., Elmquist, J., Hecht, M., Miller-day, M., Stuart, G. L., & Brem, M. (2017). Psychological abuse, mental health, and acceptance of dating violence among adolescents. Journal Adolesc Health, 59(2), 197–202. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jadohealth.2016.03.034.Psychological
Turner, L. A., & Langhinrichsen-Rohling, J. (2011). Attachment, relationship beliefs, and partner-specific assertiveness and psychological aggression among college students. Partner Abuse, 2(4), 387–403. https://doi.org/10.1891/1946-6560.2.4.387
Yahner, J., Dank, M., Zweig, J. M., & Lachman, P. (2015). The co-occurrence of physical and cyber dating violence and bullying among teens. Journal of Interpersonal Violence, 30(7), 1079–1089. https://doi.org/10.1177/0886260514540324
Zhang, J. W., Chen, S., & Tomova Shakur, T. K. (2020). From me to you: self-compassion predicts acceptance of own and others’ imperfections. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 46(2), 228–242. https://doi.org/10.1177/0146167219853846
Published
2021-04-30
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ASTARI, Ni Putu Ratna.
Role of Self-Compassion and Irrational Beliefs in Relationship to Verbal Aggression in Adolescents Dating in Denpasar City.
Widya Cakra: Journal of Psychology and Humanities, [S.l.], v. 1, n. 2, p. 1-12, apr. 2021.
ISSN 2774-9231.
Available at: <https://ojs.unud.ac.id/index.php/widyacakra/article/view/70129>. Date accessed: 16 apr. 2024.
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