MIDODARENI IN JAVANESE WEDDING CEREMONY ON COMMUNICATING THE SUSTAINABILITY OF TRADITIONAL LEGACY AMONGST FAMILY
Abstract
This research was intended to gives a deep about the communicating sustainability from Midodareni event. Traditional rituals help people to deeply understand and respect further over the symbolic or non-verbal communication that used amongst them. Traditional wedding rituals increasingly unpopular over generation whilst actually live and remain amongst the society and becoming valuable cultural experience for the people. This research would like to describe the way cultural values and the legacy of traditional wedding rituals has been socialized, and perpetuated through communication in Indonesia especially on Javanese people. The constructivist paradigm was carried out to describes the phenomenon on the Javanese people’s cultural experience in absorbing the traditional rituals as the legacy amongst their family. The qualitative methods were used to collect data by observation and interviews face to face. This study found out that during communicating the traditional rituals, the cultural experience taught the Javanese younger generation more than just values and conventions but it also showed about moral virtues, generosity, hospitality, love, respect, and the soul of the tradition itself.
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Jogjakarta: Araska.
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Jawa. Jogjakarta: Araska.
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Black, P., & Sharma U. (2001). Men are Real, Women are ‘Made up’: Beauty Therapy and the Construction of Femininity. Sage Journals Vol. 1 No. 49 p. 101-116
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Condronegoro, M. & Wratsangka, W. (2018). Menggali Nilai-Nilai Kearifan Lokal Dalam
Tata Rias dan Busana Pengantin Gaya Yogyakarta. .Jakarta: Sri Renggo Sadono.
Creswell, J. W. (2018). Penelitian Kualitatif & Desain Riset: Memilih Di Antara Lima
Pendekatan. Jogjakarta: Pustaka Pelajar
DeVito, J. A. (2018). Interpersonal Communication. New Jersey: Pearson Education.
Djoeminah. (1950). Ngadi Sarira. Surabaya: Garuda
Funderburke, S. (2012). Operating the Silencer: Muted Group Theory in The Great Gatsby. Michigan: Proquest LLC
Geertz, C., t. b. Aswab Mahasin and Bur Rasuanto (2014). Agama Jawa. Depok: Komunitas Bambu.
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Hekman, S. (2015). Simone De Beauvoir And The Beginnings Of The Feminine Subject. Sage
Journals. Feminist Theory Vol. 16(2) 137–151
Hurwitz, W. L-. (2002). Wedding As Text : Communicating Cultural Identities Through
Ritual. New Jersey: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, Inc.
Kuntowijoyo. (2004). Raja, Priyayi Dan Kawula. Yogyakarta: Penerbit Ombak.
Kyo, Cho. (2012). The Search For The Beautiful Woman : A Cultural History Of Japanese
And Chinese Beauty. Plymouth: Rowman & Littlefield Publishers. Inc
Langbein, R. R. (2015). Acclimation Does Not Mean Equality: Muted Group Identity
Management Of Women In The United States Navy. Michigan: Proquest LLC
Lepchitz, R. (2013). Perceived Muted Voice And Its Impact On Female Communication
Techniques In The Workplace. Michigan: Proquest LLC
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Sage.
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Gramedia Pustaka Utama
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Approaches. New Jersey: Pearson.
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Modern. Yogyakarta: Pustaka Ifada.
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Harapan.
Rahmawati, N. N. (2016) Perempuan Bali dalam Pergulatan Gender (Kajian Budaya,
Tradisi, dan Agama Hindu). Jurnal Studi Kultural Volume I No.1: 58–64
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Shabot, S. C. (2016). How Free Is Beauvoir’s Freedom? Unchaining Beauvoir Through The Erotic Body. Sage Journals. Feminist Theory Vol. 17(3) 269–284
Strauss, A. & Corbin, J. (2015) Dasar-dasar Penelitian Kualitatif. Jogjakarta: Pustaka Pelajar.
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Tong, Rosemarie Putnam. (2006). Feminist Thought: Pengantar Paling Komprehensif kepada
Arus Utama Pemikiran Feminis. Jogjakarta: Jalasutra.
Wolf, Naomi. (2002). Mitos kecantikan: Kala Kecantikan Menindas Perempuan. Jogjakarta: Niagara.
http://studentjournal.petra.ac.id/index.php/ilmu-komunikasi/article/view/1787
http://journal.unair.ac.id/filerPDF/07_Tanning%20Lotion%20no%20picts%20ratih%20puspa_Artikel%20_edited%20edy%20Tyas%20mita%20_Revised_.pdf
http://fms.ormawa.uns.ac.id/2008/10/20/tanah-apanage-di-jawa/
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http://nasional.inilah.com/read/detail/2102228/20-mei-kebangkitan-nasional-atau-feodalisme#.U5A8hXLWI_w
Published
2024-07-16
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WAHYUNINGTYAS, Bhernadetta Pravita.
MIDODARENI IN JAVANESE WEDDING CEREMONY ON COMMUNICATING THE SUSTAINABILITY OF TRADITIONAL LEGACY AMONGST FAMILY.
Jurnal Ilmiah Widya Sosiopolitika, [S.l.], v. 6, n. 1, p. 54-71, july 2024.
ISSN 2685-4570.
Available at: <https://ojs.unud.ac.id/index.php/widya/article/view/115220>. Date accessed: 19 nov. 2024.
doi: https://doi.org/10.24843/JIWSP.2024.v06.i01.p05.
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